SelfBonding™ is the act of you, as an adult, bonding with your inner child (learn more...). Your inner child needs bonding because it is wounded. The wound comes primarily from the fact that you were not bonded with as a child. This is a common phenomenon of our culture beginning at the end of the nineteenth century (learn more...).

The importance lies in the fact that having an incomplete or wounded inner child makes the child more dependent. This means that it contaminates the thinking and actions of the adult. An analogy is watching a chimpanzee or monkey with their baby. The baby hangs on to the mother’s fur and is carried by the mother much of the time. This is natural and fine as long as the baby is still little. At a certain point the baby monkey becomes an adolescent and should get around on its own. But if the adolescent monkey, with its larger size and weight, is still hanging onto the mother, it would present quite a problem for the mother to function normally.

Similarly, in the human psyche when the inner child is not healed and liberated, the adult part of our psyche must bear the burden which often manifests in people who seem immature and dysfunctional as adults. We all have our quirks and none of us is perfect, but some people have drug, drinking, gambling, over eating, sexaholic, workaholic, etc. type problems. Or something just seems to be holding us back from getting what we want in life. These problems, can and often do, disrupt the normal, healthy functioning of the individual. These problems can stem from our inner child contaminating our adult.

SelfBonding™ is a simple and permanent method of healing the inner child and thereby liberating it and the person’s adult. This sets the stage for people to be able to change their living habits in order to function in a healthier more productive manner.

The uncomplicated and straightforward SelfBonding™ process will provide immediate emotional relief, without the need to relive the past and discuss or expose any painful and personal experiences. Also, no longer being vulnerable will allow for more rapid improvement if the individual avails them self of one or more of the many self improvement programs and techniques available. You should see improvement with SelfBonding™ regardless of whether you seek additional help or not, but the improvement should be more rapid if you do.

SelfBonding™ serves as the foundation for improvement in the persons outlook and behavior and can help the individual deal with the emotional trauma that life dishes out, just as the foundation of a house is necessary for the structure to be on solid ground to withstand the ravages of weather or a coat of primer serves as the basis for the subsequent layers of paint to take hold and look good to serve its purpose coating the structure.

After SelfBonding™, the improvement takes place because the need for the less healthy behaviors is minimized or removed. The person will naturally gravitate towards improved actions and activities because now they can.

(Note: This process is not intended as a cure for any medical condition; anyone with such a condition should seek care from a licensed health practitioner.)